Liza Colón-Zayas, best known for her Emmy-winning role as Tina in the hit series The Bear, recently shared her spiritual journey in a candid interview. Raised in a devout Catholic home in the Bronx, she attended Mass every Sunday and even served as an altar server. But as she grew older, the faith that once felt natural began to feel like a costume that no longer fit. Her story is one that many Christians can relate to—a slow drift from childhood belief to adult uncertainty.
For Colón-Zayas, the transition wasn't dramatic. There was no single crisis of faith or traumatic event. Instead, it was a gradual realization that she no longer believed in the God of her childhood. She now describes herself as agnostic, open to the possibility of something greater but unconvinced by the doctrines she once held.
The Role of Community and Tradition
One of the most poignant parts of her story is her continued connection to the Church community. Even as her personal beliefs shifted, she maintained a sense of belonging. She still attends Mass occasionally, not out of belief but out of a desire to be with her family and to honor the traditions that shaped her. This tension—between personal doubt and communal loyalty—is a powerful reminder that faith is often lived in relationship, not just in individual conviction.
As the Bible says, “For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them” (Matthew 18:20, ESV). Even when we struggle with belief, the gathered community can be a place of grace and honesty.
What the Church Can Learn from Her Story
Colón-Zayas’s journey is not unique. Many people raised in the Church find themselves questioning as adults. Her honesty invites us to consider how we can create spaces where doubt is not seen as a failure but as a step in a deeper search for truth. The early church wrestled with doubt too—Thomas needed to see the wounds of Christ before he could believe (John 20:24-29). Jesus did not reject him for his doubt; instead, he offered him the evidence he needed.
If we want to reach people like Colón-Zayas, we must be willing to listen to their stories without judgment. We must be ready to accompany them on their journey, even if that journey leads them away from the pews for a time.
Practical Reflections for Readers
If you or someone you love is walking through a season of doubt, take heart. God is not afraid of your questions. The Psalms are filled with cries of lament and confusion. Consider starting a conversation with a trusted friend or pastor. You might also find comfort in reading the story of the father who cried out, “I believe; help my unbelief!” (Mark 9:24, ESV).
For those who have never doubted, Liza’s story is an invitation to empathy. Instead of seeing agnostic friends as lost, see them as fellow travelers. Your love and presence may be the most convincing argument for faith they ever encounter.
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